Embrace Change
It is not necessary to change. Survival is not mandatory.
-W. Edwards Deming
The change will happen whether you like it or not. In fact, given technology’s evolution and globalization, there’s little doubt that the rate of change is accelerating. This can be disconcerting; we tend to hate change.
We prefer to know what will happen. However, if you fight change you’ll usually lose -- and you’ll get worn down fighting it.
This pattern of ignoring change is not new. Alexander Graham Bell said: “When one door closes, another door opens; but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us.”
The same is true in personal relationships. If you fight change, it simply won’t work. People fall out of love, they age, their needs and desires change. If you embrace inevitable change, you’ll be ahead of the pack. If a relationship isn’t working, don’t just give up. But if you have tried hard to fix it over time and can’t do anything about it, then it’s important to recognize you may need to make a change in your life.
The lesson I’ve learned is this: Since change is inevitable, the key is learning how to manage it. If you deal with issues immediately and don't let them fester, they won’t become bigger and, ultimately, unmanageable. Problems are much easier to deal with when they’re still small than if you’ve let them grow over time.
Thanks for reading, As Always,
ANKURJIT KALITA
-W. Edwards Deming
We prefer to know what will happen. However, if you fight change you’ll usually lose -- and you’ll get worn down fighting it.
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| Alexander Graham Bell |
The same is true in personal relationships. If you fight change, it simply won’t work. People fall out of love, they age, their needs and desires change. If you embrace inevitable change, you’ll be ahead of the pack. If a relationship isn’t working, don’t just give up. But if you have tried hard to fix it over time and can’t do anything about it, then it’s important to recognize you may need to make a change in your life.
The lesson I’ve learned is this: Since change is inevitable, the key is learning how to manage it. If you deal with issues immediately and don't let them fester, they won’t become bigger and, ultimately, unmanageable. Problems are much easier to deal with when they’re still small than if you’ve let them grow over time.
Thanks for reading, As Always,
ANKURJIT KALITA
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